Hi Alison

I think about you so often - I don't come here very often anymore but it's weird isn't it that we meet people here at such a vulnerable place in our lives and even though we wouldn't know each other if we bumped into each other on the street - it feels as though we do know each other. These shared experiences make us understand each other in ways others find hard to "get". Nevertheless I think about you and pray for you.

Alison, this post from you sounds like you have decided to be fully responsible for your own wellbeing and that my friend is the basis of your recovery and the promise that you will be happy again.

I'm holidaying with my mum at the moment and it was my birthday yesterday. My exH sent me a text message saying happy birthday and I commented to mum that there was a time when I thought I would never be happy again - now, nearly 4 years down the track - I am happy again. Regardless of if he contacted me or not - I'm happy again - and I know you will be too.

It's all up from here Alison - and I'll keep you in my prayers. You're good people.

Love and thoughts, Virginia

Last edited by Walkingback; 07/16/08 11:58 PM.

V

Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.