eee, My H had a 6 month A and that has been over about 17 months now. I am very insecure, trust is an issue for me and I do my best not to bring it up all the time.
His A blew me away, I had no idea he was having it or the fact our M was in trouble. H just dumped it on me and left.
We go to MC and I have been told that all the feelings I have are normal. H is great and our M is good too. He has given me no reason to not trust him...he also calls if he is going to be five minutes late.
I think this takes time...I can forgive but I don't know if I can ever forget but i feel that what we have is special enough to take the risk that it could happen again. The one thing I do know is if he ever did decide to leave the M again, it would be the deal breaker.
I think my H was in MLC...all aspects of his life were awful..he was not even recognizable for a period a time. He is back to the old H and I think that is what makes it easier for me to forgive.
