You are doing great from the sounds of things, S&A. I do understand what a long road to recovery it is. Sounds like you are more than halfway there.
You and Baggy are the poster boys for guys who GET IT. And by that I mean, (please - no one else can take offense to this, ok?) but what I mean is, there is nothing attractive about a man who thinks that his lack of sex in his marriage is the *reason* he is becoming less of a man. By GETTING IT, you have realized that by being MORE of a man, you will become more attractive in general, and spefically to your wives.
I'll be happy to read more if you make your own post or here!
