I've never read about your sitch until now. Wow, you sure have quite a story to tell.
These guys (and gilrs too) get themselves into this position and then try to either bully or cry their way into getting exactly what they want. Thing is, they have no idea what that is. Yours does seem to need professional help. There are so many of them that really, really do. But you can no longer help him. And he may not really want help. Sounds to me he likes getting his way and will do anything to get it. My X has been spoiled since the day he was born. That's why he continues to this day to try to get his way. That's why he continues to put his needs bove his children's. I think alot of D's happen because someone out there is rasing spoiled rotten kids!
Anyway, it really doesn't matter what I think. But I can still wish I'd never married one.
