Calystra.... thanks so much for the responce to my threads. I, too, really enjoyed meeting you last Thursday night and husband. you both had so much to offer and are so expereienced well beyond your years. You have given me much to ponder, read and think about. I will get back to you tomorrow when I have more time to digest. I haven't been online for several days, busy with kids, self, golf?!?!?!, and H on the week-end. He is not travelling as much as he could with is job, that's a positive....he's still definately attracted to me and my new changes....that's a positive. He works alot, but keeps me posted on his "general" whereabouts....I think that's a postive. I've really been thinking about what you and your H found as a turning point in your R. You asking for forgiveness, admitting some of your issues, etc. I, have plenty...that I've been recently realizing...last month or so....and I want to go there with my H, but I definately want to be sincere about apologizing...not just an exercise in hopefulness. I'm really thinking through that one. It will come at the right time...hopefully soon. I will get the books you recommended and post back at the end of the week. You are a great resource for so many of us on the BB. Thanks again, and I look forward to meeting up with you again.
Sincerely, Mooka
P.S. I met with Joanne, C, last Fri in Woodstock....she's great (2nd session) On the way out I met and spoke with Michele...she was so warm, caring, and encouraging. I was thrilled to meet and talk with her for 5-10 minutes, she's like a celebrity to me. I thanked her for all her efforts helping us to mend our relationships....she's a real gift to us all.
