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I have kept wearing mine. I'll stop on D-Day.
W can't wear hers at work - no jewelry allowed on the hands. She actually stopped wearing hers even before the bomb, but I honestly didn't notice since she often had them off anyway. She has never put them back on.


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I stopped wearing mine when W stopped wearing hers. As I said, she was pretty cruel during that whole period. Looking back now I was in a pretty bad state.

But, I was just curious about this classmate. Nothing wrong with a little flirting, unless, of course, she's married - no way I'd do that.

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But, I was just curious about this classmate. Nothing wrong with a little flirting, unless, of course, she's married - no way I'd do that.


lodo,

No harm in gathering some info on her before D is final........ If she asks about your status, I would give give her the honest "Readers Digest" version of your sitch...

As I have written before, sane (I STRESS SANE) women REALLY dig loving and faithful guys.......

NMD

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Thanks NMD for stopping by!

The Reader's Digest version? LOL -

Monday: "I'll love you forever"
Tuesday: "We need to talk"
Wednesday: "ILYBINILWY" = I'm screwing some guy named Steve.
Thursday: "I filed for D but not because there was someone else"
Friday: ????

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...and tough. Don't forget tough.


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oh yeah, and as Tom SAWyer, I cut down redwoods with a hand saw, cause I'm TOUGH, which chicks dig ;\)


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Friday: You're dating HER!??! Will you take me back?


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Originally Posted By: lodo
Thanks NMD for stopping by!

The Reader's Digest version? LOL -

Monday: "I'll love you forever"
Tuesday: "We need to talk"
Wednesday: "ILYBINILWY" = I'm screwing some guy named Steve.
Thursday: "I filed for D but not because there was someone else"


lodo,

Just use the above.... AND add... I really wanted to work on being a better H, our communication and our M.............


NMD


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G,

I would DEFINITELY say lodo should take her back... To the end of the line of gals waiting for lodo....

NMD


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Friday: You're dating HER!??! Will you take me back?

you kill me. ;-)


M: 37
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Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence
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