thanks you guys!!!!!!!!!! i do feel that too- and of course i am trying not to get too excited and then i get scared that it will go away...but thats just fear.... i do think i created a safe place for him....i will keep it up...i promise to myself...the results are mind blowing.
i like the tandem bike idea...how cute .... im really happy
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