Latest update: H called me sometime today while I was out and left a message on the answering machine. BTW....whoever suggested that I change my cell phone number and not give it to H...THANK YOU!

He leaves this rambling message and is using this sweet voice. He says that in the bag I had packed for him and left outside last night, I didn't put in any underwear for him (I swear I didn't do that on purpose, I thought there was some in there) and if he could please come by when he is done after work to get it out of the garage. He also says that he has found an apartment but can't move in until August 1. (Why he is telling me this I am not sure). Then he just kind of babbles on about some random stuff for about a full minute.

Meanwhile I am finally feeling GOOD! I don't have to hide my things anymore. The house is mine. When I came into the house after being out in the morning, I didn't have to think "Oh Lord what mess did H leave for me today" I knew what mess was in the house...the one I made! I finally am feeling a tad bit normal for once.

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08