I would offer advice if I had some, but I don't. Your H has disliked your steadiness all this time, but now he is looking for a solid rock to cling to, and you are looking pretty good. Yes, he is unstable, OW is unstable, the 2 of them together are really unstable, so he is left trying to hold sand in his hands. Perhaps going home to his parents is the best thing for him. He is still a child. And getting away from the responsibility of fathering D4 might help him decide if he wants to stay a child or become an adult. ((((Sue))))
