Am I crazy or is he???

[Starshyne]

I actually thought the whole time that he was with a new OW. I really thought that the first OW was out of the picture. But I was wrong. H started going "out" and staying out late with "friends" more and more frequently. At first it was one night on a weekend and then a few weeks later with was two weekend nights. At first I was trying to be alright with it. Not questioning him where he was going, trying to trust him. But when it got to be 3-4 nights a week he was gone until 1-2 a.m, I had it. I told him that if he is going to stay out all night like that, he could no longer stay in the house with me.

After leaving for about week he came back and told me he was with the first (and only) OW the whole time and he had decided he wanted to be with her.

I am sure that was not the outcome you wanted to hear. But that is what happened to me. I knew he was with some OW because I snooped around a little. I found a receipt for flowers that were purchased and some other subtle signs.

With your H, it is a concern to me that he has dropped his hobby. Have you talked to him about that?