Is the house something you would want to keep or be able to keep on your own? Just until the market gets better?
It's a possibility, that decision will be made in the future. If we start to see we will lose on it, we'll get it figured out. However the mortgage is big and i am not 100% sure i want to bear that. I can afford it, she cannot (on my own vs on her own)
Originally Posted By: klm
I don't know if W has made the actual connection with "seperation" yet.. remember she did get angry that i started my own account, and contribute a set amount to our joint now, instead of my full cheques.
Originally Posted By: klm
I don't think it hits them that they are going to have to do things on their own. It takes a while for reality to set in.
When I told my H that he would have to get his car in his name only, take over the insurance, and contribute to the mortgage until the house was sold he got angry and told me I was being spiteful. Right. I'm spiteful because I won't pay for his car and insurance.
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W said " why did you have to open your own account, you make way more money than me, you just don't want me to see what your spending your money on" ---
She also just assumed, and went and put the truck in her own name, changed the registration, put a "radio sticker" on it.. and drives it all the time. She expects me to ask for it, even though we both own it.. I just let it go. The insurance comes out of our joint account, in which we both contribute. Our cell phone plan is in her name, and i have debated on changing that, so i get a seperate plan, but i don't want to start a fight.
