They will tell you if they need help. Most of the time, they will say no. They don't want fixing. Say less...listen more and before you DO respond...think again. FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
this is not a babystep - there is no such thing. I'm just enjoying the moment while it's there. To the top of the roller coaster for now until we start down again!
Or maybe she's starting to come around? I've been enjoying the last several days as well. In the back of my mind, I wonder...is it for real this time? After so many restarts, I have nagging doubt. Today, I am taking him at his word, he's coming to my C appointment with me Tuesday (his idea) and I figure that can't be all bad. Keep doing what works. Stop what doesn't work. No? Peace.
Me:44, WAW hx bi-polar H:48, hx of abuse S:22, S:19, D:16 Filed Oct 08, dismissed Filed again Jan 10, dismissed Now Piecing alter persona: SuperBoots
