Sue,

You haven't let your D down and shouldn't feel guilty about any of this.

I agree with Rob that your H is grasping at straws. Don't let him use you. I can see him moving with you and this continuing whilst OW decides what she is doing - don't let them try to do that to you.

The fact that you can view OW with sympathy is just amazing and shows what a big person you are.

I must admit I am a bit suspicious about your H's offer to help you move a bit earlier....I can't forget his keenness to get the deposit on your current rental back. Be careful Sue.


Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength