Another Brand New Day II

[C_K]

(((Sunny)))

I have to say that I dont think sabotaging H's weekend would be a good idea. You might win a small battle but in the end what will you achieve?
Right now you are way to focussed on your H and what he may or may not be doing.
Better to get the focus back on you and what you can do over the time he is away that will be fun for you.

Dave

[SunnySeason]

Hi Dave,

My thought is to be completely dark, no interaction w/H before he leaves. That's never happened before. I've said enough, & he'll have to take the knowledge of what his actions are doing to his M & family. Ultimately, you can't hide from those,

Honestly, I feel really positive right now. He has finally topped himself & I'm taking control of the ship & giving it some sane direction. A mad man has been at the wheel & I let him.

Thanks for checking up on me, & also for the keylogger info., I used it & came out clean.

Sunny

[L21959]

(((Sunnyokie)))

So, I plan on enforcing the conseqences, although taking my time on filing...could take many months to get stuff together.

Just doing that, really going dim for a real period of time, will be a 180 for you!! And you know how long it can take to start pulling all that 'paper' together!

LL

[C_K]

I am going to add a little.

i got interested and decided to look at Puppys thread, A bit different but I am interested . It could be what us "last resorters " need .

[SunnySeason]

Hi L,

Cross posted with the same thought Dim/dark & consequences.



Sunny

[C_K]

My thought is to be completely dark, no interaction w/H before he leaves. That's never happened before.

That alone will get him thinking and may take the gloss off his trip . He will probably try to engage you with some sort of contact so he can go off 'feeling better" . So stay strong.

[SunnySeason]

Yeah Dave,

I think that's exactly what's in order, Puppy gives us all a bone to chew on!

[Puppy Dog Tails]

What she would achieve is one less bonding experience for the illicit couple.

[L21959]

So what's going on in Sunny's world today?????

[SunnySeason]

Puppy, L, & Dave,

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My thought is to be completely dark, no interaction w/H before he leaves. That's never happened before.


That alone will get him thinking and may take the gloss off his trip . He will probably try to engage you with some sort of contact so he can go off 'feeling better"

Yes, & since I can't think of any other "spoiler's", this will have to do.

Thing's are bright because I've been dark.

I cont. to ignore all of his calls/e-mail yesterday.

When he arrived at the house last night to P/U S5, I had S16 here in my place.

He left me a VM immediately expressing disappointment that Nephew(11) was not here to spent the night at his house as requested & added, "I haven't heard from you since you got my e-mail on Wednesday. I had a really fun evening planned for the boys & I don't know why Nephews not going. I do have to work tomorrow, so I'll bring S5 home early in the morning."

So I got up at 6am & left the house, leaving S16 in charge again.
When he arrived for the drop off, S16 said he looked a little stunned, like it's finally sinking in.

H-"It looks like your mother isn't home." Stating the obvious.

There's been no calls or attempt at contact & I'm feeling stronger & more detached than ever.


Sunny