My thought is to be completely dark, no interaction w/H before he leaves. That's never happened before. I've said enough, & he'll have to take the knowledge of what his actions are doing to his M & family. Ultimately, you can't hide from those,
Honestly, I feel really positive right now. He has finally topped himself & I'm taking control of the ship & giving it some sane direction. A mad man has been at the wheel & I let him.
Thanks for checking up on me, & also for the keylogger info., I used it & came out clean.