Karen, thanks for your encouragement, I'll just have to take things one day at a time.
Cat - I really need to hear that we are going about this the right way at the moment so thanks for sharing your experiences. I do believe that it is right to protect stbx's dignity and his Rs with all concerned.
Took the children to tea with the ILs today - was absolutely dreading it, but nothing really was said. Still no 'how are you?' or anything like that...
Me:36 M:16 D final: 08/09 Ds:10&5 Ss:8&3 Bomb 3xPA 200 sexual encounters 15/06/08
