I've not posted on my own sitch for a while,(I'm helping out in newcomers) but that doesn't mean to say things don't happen. It's just that I don't feel the need to rush to the computer at every little occurrence, most things I can deal with on the spot.

I still do things which irritate W, she still has a tendency to sulk and pout for a couple of days, that's how long it takes me to get things out of her about what has upset her. Last incident was W was unhappy with the morning routine, D6 unruly, me not taking control in the manner she wanted, so instead of saying something she cold shoulder and ignored me for a day. I'm trying to get through to her that if she sees something wrong, deal with it on the spot, don't sulk and go all ignorant, that's how we got into this old mess. I think she listened to me on this occasion, not sure if it's sunk in.

This last weekend was good, W, D6 and I were out of town visiting W's old friends. In the past a visit like this would have seen me clock watching and making desperate moves to get outta there as soon as possible, but I just kicked back and chilled even when W and friend induldged in some serious girls only talk. As I said the weekend was good long may we have more like that.

Lanzo