ANewBob, LL, KAW.....thanks for your insights...I jump around with my feelings of anger vs. positive DBing.. I wonder the effect on my kids (20 & 18)..they're at home this summer and feeling the tension. I want to role-model the right thing...want them to know that we can work, work, and work on our R and maybe(?) come back together. They are watching closely and I'm really worried about their future and view of relationships. I've spoken with H about this....he agrees in theory....but his actions don't necessarily show this theory. Oh well, I can only control me....my behavior....my loving, caring side. Yuk....can't wait to progress further. I'm trying to think of new positives each day....where can I make it better? I need your support and thank you for your insights. Mooka
