Bring on the Rain - Part 3

[Rob1231]

I'm not sure that H is trying to use you, as much as desperately grasping at straws. Very sad. But IT IS NOT YOUR PROBLEM. Do what's right for you and D4 - he put this all into motion, and now it's up to him to either change his ways (seems unlikely to me, at least for the time being) or live with the consequences.

I commented to you a long time ago, I think OW sounds like a very typical MLC/WAS case. For the sake of her H and children, I really hope she is starting to "come out of it" - it certainly seems like a possibility. You probably have an understandable tendency to view her as a villain in your sitch, but try to remember she's another lost, confused, and hurting person like so many others we read about here.

Hugs for ((((Sue)))) and ((((D4))))!