Am I crazy or is he???

[Mojones]

I read everyone's feedback. Thank you for responding. It has been a tough day.First off, what I changed when he got back was to give more compliments, be supportive, more intimate. we started going out and having fun together..flea marketing, going for long rides, visiting friends and then he crashed. to answer Pup's question...I don't know how to know for sure if he is seeing someone.I actually don't feel like it is the OW but suspisious that it may be someone new. As far as GALing, I have been going off and doing things alone in small increments and I did not do that before.

Today he had to be brought to the hospital for heart issues. I realized that I really mother him sometimes. I am going to work on that too.

For those who say do not give up...what advice do you have about dealing with this.I am so afraid to keep giving and have him do this again. I have been giving ALOT to this but I don't want to give any more if he can do this to me again.

For those who say it may be time to give up...considering we are on the DB website I assumed that you meant give up but still DB?

I really am trying...I get to the point where I am mad or I can't stop thinking about the A and I turn my thoughts into something positive. Not always easy. When he does not reciprocate or acts as if he resents me then I just want to withdraw..but I never do. He does not want to go to counseling.
Sara-how did you know he was with the OW? How did you handle it?