1) I told my W that I was going to give up anger for Lent in 07. She shot me the dirtyest look I ever saw from her. That started me thinking.
2) The ILYBNILWY speach on 6/17/07
3) Going to C by myself and starting to really control my anger.
Once I got that under control it was like a blind man being able to see. I saw all that I had done and did not due for her, myself and the M. Unfortunately she had checked out long ago and was talking to OM and I have been in the fight of my life since.
Don't know what to say about you H but he needs to realize how lucky he is that you are working so hard to save your M. I am doing all the work and not getting alot if feed back from her. She wont even go to MC so its a guessing game for me.
Keep doing what you are doing I hope he comes around.
