Kevin, one day at a time. that is how you can get past the heartbreak. yes she made lousy choices during P/A but Kevin she had another choice and she made that one also You & your marriage. Give each of you the chance you deserve. I do realise that I played apart in my H's affair also. Read.Read & read some more. Be patient. Be her friend. That what I did with my H. I became his friend again. Kevin the memory of the affair still hurts. But I'm not going to let something that lasted a few months destroy the chance at happiness I have with my H in a renewed marriage. Hang in there KIP
"Those who don't read, have no
advantage over those who can't"
Mark Twain
