Hope4us struggle, part 7

[Hope4us]

Not that I know of.

Let me share a few things I think about the situation. I've shared them before, but they've been spaced out in a number of posts.

I think the A is over completely. After I exposed to the kids and they both told W they would have nothing to do with her EVER if she got together with the man that broke up our family I think that woke her up some. Doesn't mean I am positive that she doesn't share an email or IM with him periodically. Maybe even a phone call. I'll never be able to know that if she does it from work unless I walk into her office and demand to see her work email/IM listing.

I think he might talk to some of the guys that work in W's office, but maybe not. The contractors work upstairs in her office and her department works downstairs so it's not like there's a whole lot of interaction between them. The contractors would have no reason to go downstairs much. I KNOW that no one else knows about the affair, for certain, but there maybe some who suspect. I mean, we move here and she's got on wedding rings and a year later he moves away and she doesn't have them on then, so I would suspect that people probably have an idea given that when he was here they would spend a lot of time in each other's offices.

So....He could still communicate with some people there, but I suspect it would only be W (if at all as I KNOW he's already moved on to the next victim) or one or two of the guys upstairs.

And I was just thinking of getting flowers on my way home and giving them to her there.