IMHO you H has not woken up to the fact that he has contributed to the problems in your M. He sees you as walking away and does not understand that his actions and inactions have caused you to take this drastic action. He belives that you are the problem not him.
He is lashing out at you and not doing his homework because in his mind he is not the problem.
I understand what he is probably thinking because that is what I thought for a long time. It was my W fault we did not get along, she was moody, unhappy more than likely depressed. Until I realized how I had failed her and ignored not only her needs but my own that I saw how I contributed to our current situation. My anger was because of my inability to make myself happy, it was just easier to direct it at her than deal with believing that I was the problem.
I am not trying to excuse his actions, he is being immature but just trying to let you know what he is probably thinking.
Until he wakes up and sees that it took both of you to get to this point and stops blaming you for leaving him you will have many more MC sessions and interactions like yesterday.
JMO but again he sounds like where I was over a year ago. Hopefully a train hits him and he wakes up like I did.
