W confessed to me yesterday....Help....

[sage]

Thanks for the quick replies.
I do see her moving and ending the relationship og as positive steps to saving our M. I just dont know if I can get beyong these feeling I have. She has broken my heart with her actions so much over the last year. I feel like I am just dead inside. I have no love left to give.

So maybe it's too soon to give? Take a Kevin break. Console yourself. Do things that make you feel good about you. Go away for a few days if you can. My 2 cents is that you should let your w. know that you need some healing time. IMHO, it's important that you don't penalize her for her disclosure -- you'll want to keep the honest lines of communication open -- you're gonna need it. That doesn't mean that you can't take a few steps back and work on healing yourself right now.

Sage