Kevin - I'm really sorry to read what W did.

The fact that W broke off the PA and moved with you to Georgia is a very good one but there's a heck of a lot of work ahead for the both of you. And it will be a very slow process, Kevin - with (unfortunately) plenty of chances for pitfalls and stumbles.

I think that finding a SBT person in your area should be a very high priority for joint C. But you have us on the BB to turn to as well, Kevin. Vent all that you need to here.
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When I tried to talk to her about my pain all I got back was that I hurt her in the past. Almost like she was getting even with me. Am I perceiving that wrong.

Sounds like W is looking for a way to justify her actions. However you may feel about "hurting her in the past", she has that perception. They're neither right nor wrong - but they are hers. Has she tried to explain how you have hurt her? Does she view things differently now that all of you have moved to Georgia?

I think that we'll get all of the regulars to chime in as well...


Bob