Guilty as charged.. I am a WAW.

[goldeylox]

((Bridge))

How you continue is more important than how you start. You can either be captive to a less-than-stellar past, or captivated by the promise of a bright future. Always remember that your life has meaning. The biggest threat to your future is not drugs or disease; it is a lack of self-esteem. Take your success seriously if you want others to respect you.

This is a quote from a friend of mine, the mediator who I worked with last year after I walked. In case you missed it, I'll repeat his wise words, which speak to me:

How you continue is more important than how you start.

I think I'm somewhere between you and Cookie. My Hus didn't call me a b*tch, but I'll bet he was thinking it. We've certainly had some whopper arguments both before and after MC sessions. This week has been nice for us, but when I read your post, I know that this honeymoon isn't going to last forever. I need to work on my self-esteem so I'm strong for whatever my future holds. My H, like yours, is impossible to work for. IMO, he has unrealistic expectations and has turned the Blame Game into an art form. He is a DAM, and this week we've had a mini-breakthrough with his interactions w/ kids. They've noticed he's acting different, but are not sure what to make of it.
Anyway, sorry to ramble, just wanted to let you know you're not alone. Peace.