Hope4us struggle, part 7

[Hope4us]

Ok, looking for a couple of opinions.....

I'm wondering about flowers.....W has been very appreciative when I've done a things for her here the last couple weeks....bought the cherry pie after she mentioned it sounded good and she sent me a note thanking me for the thought. I just sent her a note telling her that her car tire was fixed and she was appreciative....

So I'm wondering at this point, is buying flowers for her too pursuing? I mean, I get the DB point of not pursuing, but does there come a point where you need to start those little pursuits?

Just curious...

Edited to add, I wouldn't put an ILY on a card or anything, just maybe a thinking about you or something like that.