Believe me whan I say this Tink, I am no longer her doormat and I pointed this out to her. I won't just take her back at whim!! If she ever decides that maybe she wants to give us a try, well then she has alot to prove to ME!! I am tired of taking everyones s^&% because I used to be the type of person who was afraid to speak up because I did not want to hurt anyone's feelings...NO MORE!! Nice guys always finish last and I am tired of coming in last. I personally don't care one way or the other anymore, not saying I don't love my W, but am prepared either way. It will be hard knowing if she does get the D that it is a forever comittment so to speak.
I will be around as a friend but not readily available. I feel I am entitled to help her out on the DUI because it happened while we were still married, maybe I am wrong here?
I would love it if our R did work out, it would take an awful lot of work from BOTH of us, but that is nowhere near so I am not worried about that.
