As for high hopes, let me pass on something my pastor said to me on Sunday, when I told him I needed prayers to deal with my anger about H and his ignoring the kids. He told me that I was always my husband's source of accountability, but right now, I cannot hold him accountable. He told me that dealing with disappointment and anger will be easier when I learn to NOT expect anything from him, but to continue to pray for him to accept and step into the place of leadership that God intends for him in our family.
Thank you, (((((SMW)))))), I love it! I wish I could finally learn not to expect anything from H, TRULY, not just pretend that I don't have any expectations.
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08