W just called me at work just to say hello. She was in a great mood. Said the dog was a great idea - he is very good company for her when she is home alone and she is really enjoying him. She spoke to me a little bit about her therapy session. Said her therapist is really focusing on her parents and why my W is always worried about what they will think whenever she makes a decision. She said she is linking many of her issues to her childhood. I just listened and validated - FINALLY KEPT MY MOUTH SHUT!!!

It felt great to talk to her from here - puts me in a good mood. She was talking with me and playing with the dog at the same time. She said she saw this great recipe for mexican meatballs in the waiting room at therapy yesterday - they let her make a copy and she is going to make that tonight --That is my old W right there. She asked if we can hang by the pool tonite. We talked for a half an hour - normal stuff.

FIB -this is not a babystep - there is no such thing. I'm just enjoying the moment while it's there. To the top of the roller coaster for now until we start down again!

Last edited by mulesqb; 07/16/08 05:32 PM.

M 43
W 44
M 17
T 22
S16,12,9
Bomb 2/05/08
I served her 1/06/09
S'd 3/15/09
D'd 12/21/09



"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.