WAW is full steam ahead

[LosingSunshine]

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Thanks for stopping by again. I think not answering the phone is a good first step. She needs to realize that I am not there at her beckon call. I think we are not entering some stage of relative calm/stability in how things are. I guess that is good. Pleasant conversation about the kinds in the morning and in the evening and not much else in between unless she initiates. Since you brought up venting/anger. I wish my wife would do some of that :-) Right now, me and my C believe she's still juggling with the decision and although I am "dim", I am starting to experiment with different things to see what works and what doesn't.

For instance, I steamed her shirts the other night and she didn't bring it up. I view that as a positive since she didn't say don't do it. Next, last night she was going to do some laundry before heading to bed and asked me if I needed anything thrown in. I said thanks but no thanks as I had done mine and the kids the night before. There are other small things that I have been doing that she notices and goes unspoken about. My overall attitude has left her confused too as she was expecting a mean, angry, pissy, combative attitude and instead she gets calm, cool and collected. Couple this with the 180s on drinking, involvement with kids, and validation/WOA during kid talk...well, we'll just have to wait and see.

Chris