I just want to say thanks for putting the whole thing in that context. I have no doubt I will recover and I have no doubt that I have learned things about myself that I never knew before. I really worry about my kids though...what did they learn about themselves? I know when my parents were divorced I had so many questions and so few answers. I know I will be there for them the best I can, but I don't think my ex-wife will be. She has it in her head to be 22 again with no cares in the world, it is disconcerting honestly.
Again thanks for giving me the "man-up" advice...God knows I need it sometimes.
