Yes, I agree with Puppy. I was thinking.....be firm, don't be wishy washy...but don't be a dick. Think of it this way.....if this is the very last conversation you will have with her, say she died the very next day, what would you say about your love for her? Say that along with what she needs to do for you to be able to work on things with her and what will happen if she does not. You can love her to pieces but it won't matter if she doesn't stay home and stop contacting the OM.
