Hi, Kevin. Just want to let you know that what you are feeling is normal. Recovering from a spouse's infidelity takes takes time, but it can be done. My W had an affair in 2001. I heard all of stories about how much in love she was with him and that he was her soulmate. You have to dig pretty deep to get through that stuff, but it can be done. My W and I are back together over a year and things are great.
I must admit that I do think about what happened every day, but it finally stopped bothering me.
"After the affair" is a real good read and gives a lot of good insight into why your W did what she did and how she feels inside. Keep up the DBing.
