Hi Lodo thanks for the thoughts.. a pros & cons list is not a bad idea. I had one a year ago before I left. I should see if I can find it and compare.
Originally Posted By: lodo
The way you and your H interact make it sound like he left you rather than the other way around.
The thought that has been going through my head: IS this how LBS act when the WAW comes back? Is my agreeing to go to counseling for communication enough of an inroad to him that he now gets to 'let down' on the changes he had showed me he had made? To let his hurt & anger out about me leaving? Or is this just more of the same?
While he has always had an element of arrogance, rudeness & controlling to him.. what I'm seeing now has more of an 'edge'.
Originally Posted By: lodo
His emotional outbursts, well, that's mature huh? He didn't apologize about breaking your phone and offer to replace?
Nope.. he just gave his usual exasperated 'huff' and said.. "just like everything else I touch, it gets 'f'ed' up."
He has called twice now.. i have let it go to voicemail but he has not left a message. God this makes it hard to concentrate on that paper with any coherent thoughts...
double uggg..I think I'll go have some ice cream! Bridge
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