Jill: Sorry I did not read this until now - limited Internet and all.
Takes me back to 3 years ago when I lost my mom. It is SO difficult.
You did well to make the visits you did in the past while. You will never regret that time. Good that your sis and BIL are there. You have to do what is right for you and only you can decided.
Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I will be here if you need to talk.
