Thanks, everyone. I can't tell you how much I appreciate your support. BIG HUGS ((((everyone)))).
My Dad will probably be in a hospice facility by the end of the week. I know he doesn't want to go there but we're all trying to convince my Mom that it's where he'll get the best care. He's completely bed ridden now, eats very little, is hallucinating, does not seem to be in pain, weak, etc. I'm so grateful that my sis and BIL are there. I've decided not to go until he's gone. Then, I will stay with my mom for however long is necessary to help her adjust.
I hate not being there now but there's nothing I can do that isn't being done.
I will miss him so much. He was the best thing that ever happened to our family.