By all means do not make your emotional and mental wellbeing a priority in the midst of a confounding (second) divorce, job change, buying and selling a new home and relocation. After all your challenging 'hands on' profession does not contribute to any of the potential probably never to be realized stresses you have in your life. Key indicators like significant weight loss, difficulty sleeping, feelings of helplessness or depression do not apply.
Like I've always said... the best lawyers are the ones who represent themselves!
How DARE you even CONSIDER I could be the LEAST bit WHAT?!?!?!! at you!!!!
Uhh.. that's me joking... oh yes.. I am a funny one, aren't I?
Ms imp. You are the best, the sweetest most gentle soul I've ever met. I'd shower you with gold stars, twerple you purple and have dandelion fluffs sing your praises if it were humanly possible.
Know you are loved to your very core. And if that sad tape starts playing in your head again, hit erase, toss it out.. and consider yourself twerpled.
Thank you for your time and post, which I will reply to in depth. Right now though, I'm going to wrap it around me like a warm fuzzy blankie and feel a balm to my soul in the midst of the storm.
How goes the day? I think of you when I'm in Starbuck's. Actually I think of lots of people when I'm in Starbucks.. go figure.
The volunteering should be fulfilling. I have to have my second TB test on Monday and will be approved for volunteering by Thursday if the results come back negative.
Oh yes.
I did something yesterday.. Have you heard of FitFlop flip flops? They give you a workout while being oh so comfy. I bought a pair yesterday and have been bouncing around today on them. You're supposed to wear them for short periods, gradually building up.
Oh yes.. let's see how long I go before I collapse!
How are you doing? Is having hubby gone a bit draining? *hugs*
What's new? Today I see my therapist and have all sorts of stuff to talk about.. anger issues, sabotaging myself, how to get the anger out... what was the other thing.. parallel helplessness thinking? Ugh. Hopefully I'll get it right.
As usual.. once I've had a few days of no spouse contact, I always feel better.
Some folks I trust who are divorced have given me some insight.. while others say the exact opposite. I listen to the ones who seem happiest and comfortable in their skin.
My hospital cuisine was a freshly made salad of mixed garden greens, wild sauteed mushrooms, carrots, green peppers, grape tomatoes, white beans and more stuff with some slices of sirloin lightly tossed in front of me with a touch of balsamic vinagerette dressing. They also have the best brownies and chocolate chocolate chip cookies.
Some folks I trust who are divorced have given me some insight.. while others say the exact opposite. I listen to the ones who seem happiest and comfortable in their skin.
Hope all is going well.
*hugs*
That's good. Gypsy..seems like in Tennessee with people I know it's always the opposite..no insight just BLECH!!!!
I'm tired of BLECH!!!!
I'd like an AHA!! every once in a while...maybe I can make an AHA.
PS..bait is in the water..send 7 year itch my way. I'll show em how to hook the big one.
By all means do not make your emotional and mental wellbeing a priority in the midst of a confounding (second) divorce, job change, buying and selling a new home and relocation. After all your challenging 'hands on' profession does not contribute to any of the potential probably never to be realized stresses you have in your life. Key indicators like significant weight loss, difficulty sleeping, feelings of helplessness or depression do not apply.
We are going to have to settle this toe to toe. The gloves are coming off!
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