Much better! That's really good thinking now, about him being capable. As far as the therapy, spend most of the time listening and do very little talking, is my suggestion. Also you can take that opportunity to maybe say something like "I would like to apologize to you for disrespecting you in any way that I did. I've done a lot of thinking and realize that you are much more capable and responsible than I gave you credit for. And I just wanted you to know."