Sandi.
Thank You! too long? Try not long enough. wonderful explanation. Spot on with my sitch.


and to SmartCookie:
I'm sorry, I had to snicker when I read this;
<<"please snap out of inventorying my mistakes and lets start working on healing".>>


I meant this very tongue-in-cheek. It is what I feel, but its not what I'm ever expecting to see actually happen.

"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".