Hi, I am new to DBing and I just found this thread. I am "almost" positive my H is having an affair EA or PA with a woman who has three kids and is 30 years younger than him.
He said he's known her for over a year and met her at work. I also found a secret cell phone in February with her phone number on it and a phone number with her shortened name which belonged to a hooker. She says he is married but the last time I talked to her she said she is getting divorced.
When I mentioned this to my H (this was all a long time ago -- weeks at least) he said, "I'm sure there was a lot of lying going on in that conversation." When I asked him if she was married, he said, "As far as I know, no." Yeah, right! Anyway, I don't think he sees her all the time, but I know he talks to her at least three times a week on his Private Cell phone. He took my name off of the authorized telephone billing in the middle of June and has been using his own (regular) cell phone exclusively now. At one time, I caught him with two extra prepaid phones, and if that's not crazy, what is?
Thanks for listening.
Not sure what he gets from her. When I found out about her in February, he said they were just friends and he took her to lunch a couple of times. He told me, at that time, that they talk about everything, sometimes they even talk about me. I think she is "coaching" him.
Then, I found out he was with her in a hotel one night, but he still denies that too. Stills says there is no affair. I'm afraid he is denying it because he's afraid it will affect the financial possibilities for him in the divorce. He wants the house and said he will "...fight me tooth and nail for it."
