It doesn't feel like I did a damn thing.

It feels worse. Like I'm stoking the flames and not in a good way.

Do I still force that conversation if she says she doesn't want to talk on Saturday? I did not see the good of our conversation.

I DO have a habit of focusing on her, but that is when things get heated. Then I have to come back and say that I wasn't perfect. I'm sure that things come out as what SHE is doing wrong. I have to keep the focus on us. On what WE did wrong. How only WE can repair it.

Don't know if I'll get to to talk about that stuff.

Again, speaking points to cover, anyone?


Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."