I am only about a third of the way through the book. It is very calming to my thoughts. So far I wouldn't say it is making me think I don't want to be with my husband. She talks of her marriage and the pain of divorcing, and of her depression. I have had these feelings she is having so there is some validation. Do I feel like I should divorce like she did? Nope. My husband actually read the first part before me and thought it was a good book??????!!!!!!!