The bitterness is normal....after all you are mad that your W apparently doesn't have as much faith in your M vows as you do. I went from being really ticked off to be very sad to feeling empowered....all of them very powerful.
You have to decide what to do for you, but I would caution you in doing anything vindictive....nothing good can come of it. I think if you decide to not pay the phone bill, then the presentation of it is what matters. Something like, "I'm really trying to help out as much as possible, but I can't afford to pay all of this myself and then suggest something" It all depends upon which approach you want to take tough love or friendship. It is all in what works for you. Has she filed yet or has there been a formal separation?
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
