ISH, I have been reading your thread and I want to applaud you for your efforts. In saying that, let me alert you to a few things. First, whatever you do will probably not have much of an impact on the overall situation. I don't mean for that to sound negative to you, its just how it is. He isn;t worried very much about you or what you do or don't do, its all about HIM. What HE wants, what HE is going to do, HIS "future" LOL I laughed at that last remark, because you are probably going to discover that he will end up in a MAJOR mess before this is all said and done. Sad thing about it is, unless your H is a remarkable man, he will not admit his past mistakes during all of this, its been my experience that the vast majority of people who go through this will continue living the lie so to say. To elaborate on that statement, most folks would rather live miserable the rest of thier lives rather than admit they screwed up. Its sad but true, hang around here for awhile and you will see that.
