One time when I was truly lost, I asked some of the men to read a synopsis of what had been going on. Talking about getting perspective I never imagined.
Perhaps taking time to consolidate your thoughts, summarize where you are and ask for the guys' help would give you insight you never imagined. I even stopped at buddy bonding threads of guys I didn't know and asked.
It helped me immensely. Face it.. guys know how guys think.
