As I told you about a month ago, it is her lack of introspection that bothers me the most. By this point, I would have hoped that she would have picked up a book or two and tried to begin getting on with her life and trying to learn more about what she did, if she is indeed truly repentant and wanting to come back to the marriage.
I'd suggest leaving them out, and see if she will pick them up. But I still think you're going to have to re-confront her at some point very soon.
