I think he should pay his share and then you should go on those trips and have a fabulous time. How were you to know he was going to lose his mind in the meantime?
Great job on the DB'ing. I'm still working on it and I'm not as good as you are at it.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.