All settled in 250 miles apart

[JWS]

Hi guys, thanks for the advice. I am feeling pretty bitter lately and ticked off. I guess that comes and goes. when you are truly in love with someone it is very easy to overlook even the biggest flaws. I am slow falling out of love with her and starting to not like what i see at all. I am not giving up by any means, its just more reason to accept that this R is over and the only way for our M to survive is to someday start a new one. I guess it may make being friends easier, after all i have a few other difficult friends and although i don't talk to them often i still care for them. she may become the same way for a while.

I called the phone company and we can actually save money on separate plans so that is the approach I will take. aside from that i am paying the car payment and all of her insurance. bottom line is as a student I know what kind of an income she is bringing in and what she cannot afford. its not really the money i care about its her hurting me with out any consequences. having her cake and eating it too, kind of thing. but is that vindictive? I don't know.